Nanaimo Couple Finds Love and Support Amid Holiday Challenges

A new love story unfolds in Nanaimo as local resident Ken Griswold shares how he found companionship and support during difficult times. Four years ago, Griswold, a 68-year-old former Canadian Armed Forces reservist, sought to volunteer abroad in Ukraine but was unable due to his age. Instead, on May 10, 2022, he welcomed Nataliia, a 58-year-old woman who fled the conflict in her home country, into his life. What started as a commitment to help quickly blossomed into a romantic relationship.

As their bond grew, the couple faced new financial challenges. With only a pension to rely on, Griswold and Nataliia turned to local resources for assistance. They began utilizing services from the Salvation Army and the Loaves & Fishes food bank in Nanaimo. Griswold reflected on his longstanding connection with the Salvation Army, stating, “My connection with the Salvation Army goes back to when I was living with my mom as a child and they offered support. I have only ever had good connections with them.”

The impact of the Empty Stocking Fund this holiday season has been significant. According to Yvonne Borrows, Major of the Salvation Army in Nanaimo, the Griswolds are among 2,500 families receiving Christmas hampers this year, made possible by the community’s generosity. The Empty Stocking Fund has been aiding families in British Columbia for over a century, providing food and gifts during the festive season.

Borrows noted that demand for food bank services has surged, while donations have declined. “Our numbers are up significantly and our donations are down,” she explained. “Food costs are up, rents are up, and more people are struggling to make ends meet. We are helping more people now who have jobs.” As grocery stores are allowed to keep food on their shelves longer, the Salvation Army has encountered fewer contributions, making their work more challenging.

One of Borrows’ critical responsibilities is addressing the emotional needs of those they serve. She described the struggles many individuals face, saying, “The cycle is brutal; people are giving up and sinking deeper into depression or addictions, which makes it harder for them to pull out.” To combat these issues, the Salvation Army employs community outreach workers who assist individuals with housing insecurity and health needs, including an art therapist and programs for children.

The Empty Stocking Fund, supported by community donations, plays a vital role in helping families during the holiday season. Contributions can be made online at theprovince.com/esf or by calling 604-253-6911. As the Griswolds navigate their new relationship and the challenges of life in Nanaimo, they exemplify the resilience and hope that define the spirit of the season.